Saturday, 29 December 2012

FB MANIIA

Bohat likha angreezi main.. ab apni matru bhasha main likhne ka bada mann kar raha hai......Aaj ka din bada khaas hai. New year 2013 ke liye bas 3 days reh gaye..aur mere khayal se hum sab ne planning kari hogi...kai doston ko party karni hai, kisi ko apni so called friend ko propose karna hai, aur kisi ko..lambe vacation par jana hai..phir kuch aur aise bhi parinde hain jo sirf apni nayi dairy ka intezaar karte hain so that woh apni new diary main woh sab likh sakein jo woh pure saal karna chahte hain.
So, maine bhi ek nai dairy li hai aur mujhe bhi kai baatein likhni hai.

Par abhi mujhe yahan kuch khaas likhne ka mann kar raha hai.....so while I am writing this my mind is fishing for some interesting topic.
Okay, it seems I have got one.

It was last year, when, I was still a facebook addict and like every other youngistan, I managed to update my profile regularly. So,one day I had posted a famous quotation of Gautam Buddha.
"At the base of disappointment lies expectation".
Amazingly, I got 23 comments and 15 likes! That day I learned something, we the so called future of India can understand only one language yes.... the "FB language".At times I don't understand about how should I react, for I have and I am witnessing a gradual transition that is taking place in our mindset. Today true friendship is getting replaced by facebook friendship. The igniting minds which should have been utilized in building up their intellects are confining their thought process till what to upload on facebook! And this doesn't end here the extent to which the facebook mania has reached can very well be judged from many suicide cases which have been caused due to excess depression.

Today if you visit any college you will certainly find friends talking "yaar maine toh BF ke liye FB pe account open kiya".("I have opened an FB account for BF).
This puts me in to a lot of confusion. I often hear my friends discussing "FB pe bohat time waste hota hai, pata nahi chalta aur kitne ghante waste ho jate hain". For this I would say this is the extreme level of immaturity.

Social networking sites have become lifelines of cyber world. IM's E mails are ruling our personal and professional world.These have become the basic amenities after food,clothing and shelter. Many find these sites quiet helpful as they stay connected with people but virtually. Every technology has both pros and cons.We have been listening this statement since ages.. so let me technically modify this ..
So i put it as... Every boon mis utilised becomes a bane.
Though social networking sites are helpful ,recently, these are proving more harmful.Young girls upload their lovely pictures and ultimately their pics are misutilized in a wrong way and their accounts are hacked. Not just this many suicide cases have been registered just because of depression which was created among youngsters just because their life is not so happening as of their friends.
Unemployed young generation find it a medium to get over their frustration ,the valuable time which should have been utilised in building up a strong career goes wasted sitting in facebook. Recently many youngsters have been diagonised with FAD.Facebook addiction disorder. Being a youth, I know the extent to which it creates a havoc in lifestyle.

So,social networking sites should be used in a safe manner. Cyber security is most essential while we are online. Many articles, journals have been published regarding cyber security but nothing seems to be implemented. We are matured enough to know what is good and what is bad and I am sure our rational thinking will solve the purpose. Think , and be safe while online..


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