TO DO LIST THIS NEW YEAR

There is nothing new or weird about a "To do list". Each one of us might have at some point or the other in life thought of implementing whatever is noted down on the same.So, I find myself within the dimensions of human psychology and I am no exception. Honestly speaking 31st December and 1st of January are the most exciting days of my life. I love the "riddance" part last day of every year. Its quiet exciting and then comes the "day" every year where I feel God gives every other person on this earth to rectify their mistakes. The best part is to forgive and forget everything that happened last year and to begin life afresh.

Life is too short to keep hard feelings alive. Life is too long to get going and let go off the past. Then what else we can do to put up with the monotony, frustration and yes failure that drives us like a capacious lady. In my opinion life can be as soft as a child and can be as wild as a beast. Many of us often end up hating ourselves and blaming this life and criticizing every aspect of this nature. Is really this world such a grave place to exist? Each one of us should put this question before us and seek answers every year on 31st night especially those who have reached a saturation level and are fed up with every aspect of life.

So,may be this small article could be a bit useful as how to handle this life easily. For me life has always been some kind of adventure I wouldn't say...nor I would say it to be a mystery. For me life is just life neither too easy nor too difficult. We need to understand this life and to cope up we should be happy.

Riddance part of my life.

In order to get along with my life and to begin a new year afresh I consider getting rid of past memories is very important. Past is like the junk food and as a doctor proscribes us to keep away from junk stuff similarly God asks us to keep away from past memories and pain associated with it. As the junk food depletes our health and physique quiet similarly past kills our courage to move forward in life. It weakens our mind for which we are unable to generate good quality thoughts and thus we voluntarily bury ourselves in to this graveyard of pain.

So, I do a very special thing to get rid off the past and any such pain associated with it. What I do may sound a bit weird but in practice it refreshes my mind heart and soul for a new beginning.
Every year I collect all such materials which may possibly remind me of the past and I burn them. yes, this may seem a bit filmy but its worth a shot. Believe me...when those painful memories burn in front of you all that fire regret resentment everything within you seems to calm down just like those fumes within you will start evaporating.

A new start

Once I was reading Paulo Coelho's "A manual for the warrior of light". A particular line fascinated me.. " Form today I will erase all those painful encounters faced in the diary of life instead I will write only two words - Courage and Faith. This line if followed by everyone everyday each of us can be as happy as we ever dream t of. So, the new diary which I buy every year, happens to be the diary of my life and I especially try to mention all those good and productive things that I did entire year.

I feel each one of us have so many qualities within us just we need to look in to ourselves and try to know who we are and I guess A good start is half done..


Happy new year and happy new life.